I need to rewrite this, because I hate how it initially came out, I apologize.
I am usually a very quiet person, so you will rarely find me on chat and almost never on mic unless I am very close to everyone on the server. Some of my friends know I am female and some don't.
In some servers women talk on mic and it is never commented upon. She is just another player like everyone else. If I hear anyone making sexist jokes about other players, though, or calling players "bitch" or saying "eat my cum, eat my cock", I mute them and then quietly report them. I don't understand why anyone cares what gender or race a person is, only how good and how cooperative they are in-game, or how nice of a person they are.
If people are being douchebags I leave for a couple hours, but I never leave the game entirely because not everyone is bad, there's enough good to outweigh the bad.