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Nice picture, I think I saw something like it in my freshman year as a Biology student.
>Just like I believe homosexuality is a result of your environment.
And that right there makes me glad to be done trying to argue my point about asexuality. If you think a sexual identity of any sort is due to how a person is raised or a choice, you'll never understand anything but the hetero norm even though, by your belief, people can't be "born" heterosexual either - it's their environment. Unless heterosexual is the only "natural" sexuality and all other sexual identities are environmental... millions of different environments leading to non-heterosexuality, hurm...
>Orgasm/ejaculate and reproduction are as important a characteristic of life as getting/using energy, or being made up of cells.
The ability to reproduce is an important characteristic of what we classify as living things. Just because an organism doesn't reproduce or orgasm/ejaculate in its lifetime doesn't mean it's non-living.
Did you know that reproduction in the the New Mexico whiptail (Cnemidophorus neomexicanus) doesn't involve a male? Not much ejaculation or orgasm going on there.
Or that the males of many species of cephalopods, newts, and salamanders deliver sperm packets to the female? Techinically ejaculatory, as they have to push/pull them out, but not very orgasmic.
Still reproducing, but without ejaculation/orgasm. Neat.
And is this not-liking-to-orgasm thing only unnatural in males, or females too? I've been thinking that, if this were a girl posting about not liking orgasms, not that she couldn't have an orgasm (and this person never said they couldn't), there would never have been much of an argument because at least she cares so much about her partner's needs. That is, as long as she didn't have a history of abuse/bad sexual experiences/physical problems/etc. But, because it's been assumed this person is a guy, that somehow makes it different since a male ejaculates during orgasm (unless you believe in the whole tantric sex thing) and that ties into reproduction??? I feel double standards.
There are many "unnatural" things humans do, and no one says a thing or thinks twice. But oh those orgasms! You either like them or you need help. To me, it's a 'meh' sort of thing. I've had them, plenty, but they aren't my slice of pie and never have been. So what? Human society is not like any other animal society, it is not driven purely by nature or instinct. It is okay to not want to orgasm or reproduce or eat your veggies, male or female, gay, bi, straight, whatever. Live and let live and, at the very least, tolerate.
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