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>>5148
See, I'm in exactly the same boat as you, here. Or rather, was. For a few months last year I ended up in a monogamous relationship (not usually my thing at all)but what made it all the more complicated was that my girlfriend already had a girlfriend.
And THAT girlfriend had a boyfriend. It was sort of like polyamory, except... Not. What this girl had ended up with was two, seperate monogamous relationships. Where it could've been awesome and become a sort of 'love square', it ended up as a line, going me-her-her girlfriend-her girlfriend's boyfriend.
Problem was, me and her girlfriend and her girlfriend's boyfriend all wanted to fool around and be awesome, but my ex wasn't interested in this at all, and it ended up getting horribly awkward and then collapsing. Now she's a grumpy cow, and me and her (now ex-) girlfriend (and her boyfriend) are fabulous - if infrequent - fuckbuddies.
Anyway, providing you got through all of that without your eyes crossing, my point is this. Some people are built for mongamy, others are not. It's very (VERY) good of you to make an effort to stay monogamous (as I did when my ex decided she wanted a closed relationship), but as a guy who once almost-cheated on his boyfriend with me once said, 'If I want to, that's half the battle lost already'.
You should discuss this with your boyfriend some more. Heck, point out the possibility of a M-F-F threesome, he shouldn't say no to that. Another one of my exes and I had a policy (because we were both bi) of 'It's not cheating if it's the same gender'. Mainly cause she loved seeing me kiss pretty men, and I wasn't averse to seeing her making out with a girl.
tl;dr i've said nothing helpful at all oh my god
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