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No. 6408
>>6390
Man, that just looks like it'd chafe. Never tried it myself, though.
>>6402
Some people like penetration, others don't. While you're sorting out what you like, maybe you could try vibration and penetration as separate phenomena- not everyone likes penetration. A standard-issue Pocket Rocket vibrator can give you both- try it externally and internally, vibrating and not. Spencer's Gifts down at the goddamn mall carries 'em for $10. They're not super, but they're a start. (Penetration only can be achieved with the plunder of the produce section and an ample supply of condoms, but it sounds like you're not digging on penetration so hard. Also, while shopping at Spencer's, avoid the Basix line of dildos. Those things stink like a chemical spill, and never stop).
As for breaking your hymen... granted, I'm no expert on virginity, but of all the ladies I've talked to, few of them have mentioned having their hymen break in the painful, theatrical way depicted by, say, bad hentai. Apparently hymens generally have a natural opening, which can be stretched in the usual course of sex- by which I mean a fuckton of fingering, over the course of weeks or months, before you just go jamming things in there. The painful-first-time stories I've heard have all come from overexcited, inexperienced partners just kind of throwing themselves at each other any old how. So, whether you're using your fingers or a toy, take it easy on yourself, go slow, and have a good time. It's only sex, after all.
Out of curiosity, did anyone here have a painful hymen-time? I don't want to be dismissive of your experience, and if I'm getting stuff wrong vis-a-vis female anatomy, do let me know. Frankly, I see a lot more naked dudes.
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