>>8172
>>8173
>>8197

Thank you. Thank you so much. I'd just taken my first trip to see a gynecologist. I was thinking it couldn't possibly be as bad as I'd heard - that'll show me, I guess.

>>8209
and to top it off (AFIK, god i hope not) the doctor isn't trying to get you off. if theres a penis in there its trying its hardest to give you pleasure (if your guy is worth his salt)

>>8170
No worries. Speculums are made by the devil and dicks are awesome.

So.. uhm. sexchats... your opinion?

>>8385

>>8385

Call a spade a spade. You're not roleplaying, you're cybering.

I hate being short. I'm usually kind of indifferent about my shortness, but it's affecting my sex life. I have this shallow vagina that's really easy to slip out of accidentally, and every thrust a man makes inside of me seems to hit my cervix without fail. I've also got these short, stubby legs that force me to have to put my legs up over the man's shoulders just to give him access during the missionary position, and any other position is impossible. I'm either gonna have to find a man close to my height, which might not be easy to come by, or find one who doesn't mind not being able to experiment with positions.

Also my friend I lost my virginity to doesn't wanna have sex with me anymore, because we were friends for a long time before this, and he thinks it's too awkward. I agreed, because I was having trouble looking past that a little, too, but it hurts a little. I don't know why it does, because we're on mutual ground with the decision, but he was the only one who came up and offered to do it with me. If I don't magically find another body to inhabit some way, I don't know if I'll ever find anyone else.

>>8405

So wait, are you saying you've only had sex with this one guy? So your bodies aren't a perfect fit; it happens, and it's fine, I swear. There are a fair number of guys out there with small dicks, and you are going to make one (or more) of them very, very happy.

Even if you fall in love with someone who isn't a perfect fit, you can find ways to work with it. Try missionary without your knees on the guy's shoulder, or do it spoon-style. Those positions don't get too deep, and should be more comfortable for you. For goodness' sake, don't write off sex, or your body, just because your first partner isn't perfect for you.

>>8405
Oh don't worry about not finding someone. Everyone has something that someone will like. Some people like short girls.

>>8405
Wait, how short are you? I'm 151 cm (4,9 feet?), and I've found ways to get around it. My first boyfriend was around 190 cm (6,2 feet).

But I don't have a shallow vagina. I'm starting to think I have a deep one, since I very rarely get that OUCH CERVIX people are talking about.

Just ... try different things. Don't loose hope.

>>8405
Hello, friend with a shallow vagina, welcome to the club. Marty's right, you'll find a perfect fit, trust me. And when you do, it's an amazing feeling.

Does anyone know what the average vagina depth is, anyway? I'm curious. They say that average cock size is like, 5 inches or somewhere around there (I think it was 4 point something, but I always just round up), but I'm wondering if there's an average size for us girls.

I have a dilemma. I can't orgasm.
I've tried every technique everyone has ever said. Clitoral stimulation (ew doctor terms) makes my legs kinda tingle but nothing too extrodinary and penetrating with anything more than one finger is extremely painful. Even if I try repeatedly to stretch out, the most I'll ever get is the pain to subside a bit. Still no pleasure.

It's not like I don't feel horny or anything. If I read a really good comic or story (videos don't do much for me, oddly enough), I'll get that hnnngh feeling in my tummy and I'll start subconsciously rocking and everything. Even if I try masturbating while feeling this way, I don't get a full on orgasm or anything.
Or maybe I am and it's not too impressive? I never get that feeling that there's something that still needs to be done, like mentioned in other posts.

Either way, this has been bothering me lately. Any advice gaiz?

>>8425
The average depth is approximately 5 inches as well. The important thing is the first 2 inches though as feeling beyond that is pretty limited.

>>8426
It is possible that you're simply one of those women that can't orgasm. It's a small number, but they do exist. I hope that's not the case, but it is a possibility.

>>8428
One of my college roommates swore that her teacher or someone said that only 10% of women ever orgasm. I didn't believe her.

>>8426
Weird suggestion: have you tried anal? I know I never actually had an orgasm until I did.

>>8429
Considering that my Human Sexuality prof said that 85% of all college-aged women masturbate, I think 10% is a little off.

It'd mean that 75% are just doing it for something to do, then, wouldn't it.

>>8432
Well, not QUITE - I masturbate sometimes and I don't even achieve orgasm while doing so. It's still fun, so why the hell not?

>>8434
I suppose. I can't imagine doing it without reaching orgasm, though. Maybe it's just because I'm a paranoid person, so when I heard about the equivalent of blue balls for females (for the life of me, cannot remember the name, but hookers get it a lot), that comes from prolongued sexual arousal without release, and how it can cause problems, it just made me freak.

It's like toxic shock syndrome. I heard about it once, and overreacted, so now I'm forever paranoid, and won't wear tampons at all (which works out, because it hurts to anyway, I tried), because, even though I know it takes hours for that to occur, it still freaked me out.

I'm weird.

It's majorly embarrassing for me to be posting here at all, but I figured 'why the hell not?' after my boyfriend and I had yet ANOTHER chat about our cruddy sex life. We're each other's 'firsts' and we've been dating 4.5 years. Within the first two months, our sex life turned into focusing on him climaxing through intercourse and nothing else. I'm not into oral sex or masturbation (giving or receiving) and anal is uncomfortable even if we spend an hour or more prepping. So, for the past 3 years at least, it's been doggy style with him climaxing two or three times after ramming my cervix and then rolling over to sleep. All of this happens within ten or fifteen minutes. The problem is I don't like hand-holding or kissing and don't really like being touched in general. I'm also on the pill and had someone tell me that I should get off it because sex was oh so important and it might be damaging my drive. Is there anything we can do to fix it or should I give up? Googling about getting back a libido always results in articles focusing on older women in their 40s with physical complications, not someone barely in their 20s who's just shit at sex. I'm starting to think I've lost my libido permanently and it doesn't really upset me. Sex has proven to be exceptionally boring.

>>8428
I hope not. I feel a little something no matter what I do, just not enough to get me to climax. I'll have hope!

>>8430
One of my friends told me that too. I haven't tried earlier just because my stomach is derpy with IBS and it's been pretty icky lately.
Hmm. Butts.

It's proven to be exceptionally boring because it seems as though you and your boyfriend have fallen into a repetitive cycle - with him primarily on the receiving end. What do you like? Before you were with him, was there anything that aroused you - something you did, something you read about, anything you saw or imagined? How long as your libido felt dampened?
I was with someone for 2.5 years, and our sex life was horrible - there were many reasons, but one of them was that we didn't.. experiment, and I never insisted on doing anything that I liked. I got tired of pleasing him only, and feeling left out - if you continue doing the same - going through the motions for him - not only are you missing out on one of life's funner and messier pleasures, but you may be denying each other the emotional satisfaction that can come after a good romp. Not trying to be a big black cloud of course.
I was on the pill for a while, and it did kind of mess up my drive. For some women, I know it can throw them very off track. On the other hand, of course, some women are barely affected.
What I would suggest, at this point, is to do some exploring of your own and figure out what pleases you. Have you had orgasms before, what stimulated those? Nothing is hopeless, but you've got to start somewhere.

Realized I've never been able to schlick because I feel like if I'm perpetually never asked out, it's selfish to fantasize about sex if I'm never going to get any. And I can't look at myself and not cringe a bit/not get any reaction when I try touching myself, because I've been insulted so much about my body. I'm not terribly fat or skinny, I'm just not notable in any way.

Is it weird that I actually desire a guy on the smaller side? I'm like the other short female commenter, I imagine it'd hurt if he was large. But then again, I've never had anything near or inside my vagina, so I imagine anything in there to be incredibly painful.

>>8446
Before I was with him I did masturbate to orgasm regularly, but not to anything in particular and nothing really aroused me. My libido's been dampened since about three months into when we started dating. I really don't like talking about sex period and reading about it makes me nauseous within a couple minutes. That's only started within the past six months or so and I have no idea what triggered it. I've orgasmed plenty on my own, only a couple times from my boyfriend. I realize this isn't a hopeless situation, it's just not something I feel is affecting my life significantly. However, since it seems to be so important to him, I feel like I need to ask.

>>8448
This is Anon 8427 again: First off, there's absolutely NOTHING wrong with fantasizing. Secondly, I see nothing wrong with wanting a guy on the smaller side. My boyfriend is 'below average' and it's still painful if he's not careful with his angle. I've never had any other size, but I also imagine bigger would hurt if the guy wasn't careful. It all depends on your vagina and there's nothing wrong with that.

>>8448
Bleh, don't loose hope. You're going to have sex, you just have cheer up a little. Seriously, when I read about virgins complaining about their lack of sex life, I just want to rape them to make them shut up. >:(

... but then I remember I was the same long ago.

Anyway, keep on fantasizing. And it's nothing wrong with preferring guys on the smaller side. Small guys need lovin' too. But sometimes, one's fear of pain is worse than what sex actuallt feels like. I didn't feel any pain the first I had an intercourse, and the dick was average in size. So do not fear cocks. Cocks are wonderful.

>>8439
Uh. This kind of relates to the question I have.
So the other night, I was at a hotel and "role-playing" with a friend of mine. Our sex scenes or whatever are always needlessly detailed, and I found myself horribly turned on by the one we were doing that night. It was the first time I've ever really been that aroused. These are my questions, oh wise ones:
1. I'm terribly ashamed of, I'll admit it, sexting with a friggin' fifteen-year-old, and even more so for the rise it gets out of me. Should I stop this before it gets out of hand, or keep going and keep it to myself?
2. Unfortunately, I totally had whatever this female version of blue balls is. First I noticed I was wet as hell, and later I started convulsing like a mental patient, and then I had the really strong urge to either piss or vomit. This happens whenever I get intimate with anyone, too. Not only that, but I can't masturbate. I've tried, but I chicken out every time. So are these feeling natural? Does anyone else feel that awful when they're turned on?

>>8466
1. I'd say you should stop it because you're sexting a 15 year old.

>>8467
...well, yeah, that's bad. I have no excuse for that, besides the fact that she's the one who constantly starts it up, even after I specified that's not what I wanted the the damn thing to be about. she claims it's necessary. which, I know, doesn't make it right.

So, back in October, my ex-boyfriend and I broke up, and ever since then, I've been having irregular period cycles (I would miss my period for two months, then have a normal period, and then end up missing it again). However, ever since I started dating my current boyfriend in March, I've been back to having my regular like-clockwork periods.

Anyone else ever experience this? I know the theory that living in a shared space with several females will affect your menstrual cycle (mine never did when I lived in a house with 5 other women...), but does testosterone also affect your cycle? I just find it odd.

I guess that wasn't much of a sex-related thing, so I'll ask: best public spaces to have sex that aren't canyons with rattlesnakes or cars in highly-populated suburban spaces? My boyfriend wants to come visit me at my parents' house, but that means no sex in the house (my mom is always home and I'm not sure if she knows I'm sexually active or not). Any advice would be appreciated.

>>8472
last i checked, hotels and motels still existed

Unfortunately, hotels and motels are not an option, since my boyfriend is currently still trying to find a stable job and I'm trying to save money to move back into the city in the next month or so. My parents agreed to let him stay in the guest bedroom in my house.

So what do you do when suddenly you're, like
really really horny for no reason
Like I'm talking 'going outside with the urge to hump a lamppost' type horny
why

>>8478

I swear I only get horny at the least appropriate times. Like on the train, or at my desk in a crowded office. Soon as I get home, with the time and privacy to do something about it...nope, no sexy fantasies drifting through my head.

>>8472
Actually, yes, kinda, but the opposite. Before I lived in residence (and I had no contact with anyone in the res building, so the chances of it being just sync-up is unlikely), my periods were regular, but very far apart (about 40 days or more), and only lasted 2-3 days.
They still only last that long, but ever since I started masturbating regularly, they've gone down to 29,30 days apart. Never been that close to the average in my entire life.
I don't know. Maybe it's something to do with the chemicals released when I masturbate. Maybe they make my cycle different.

>>8482

On the topic of masturbation affecting menstrual cycles, I also had a similar question.
I only recently started masturbating, and since then my cycle (which used to be every 28 days ON THE DAY, like clockwork) has been really weird and otherwise unreliable.

And it's not as if I've been involved in any other kind of sexual activity in the meantime, only on my own.

I miss knowing exactly when my uterus would begin tearing itself apart.

So I started rping with someone recently and I thought it was just two people who like rping sexy things. But then I found out that the girl I rp with masturbates the our rps. We got to a certain point and she asked if we had to keep going, because she'd cum twice already and wanted to get cleaned up and go to bed.
I feel like I should be creeped out by this, but instead I am finding myself horribly aroused by the idea of it. I feel like I made her cum, indirectly. And I like that feeling, so very much.
Is this weird/have you ever experienced something similar to this before, tf2chan?

>>8493
Depending on how I feel already, and how hot the RP goes, once or twice I've fapped to the current RP. I never let on, though.

I go back and re-read almost all of them and then fap, though. Just not often at the same time as we're RPing. Because I can't think and masturbate at the same time.
One of my RP buds said I gave her a girl boner from one RP we did. I wasn't offended, or creeped out or anything. It was merely a testament to my writing prowess.

>>8478
I... I'd like an answer to that too. I've had teenage boy syndrome for about 4 months now, and I will suddenly, inappropriately, be horny. And it just. It just doesn't go away (until I actually want to do something about it, of course). Personally... take care of it, if possible? Keep yourself busy and occupied? I can hardly blame hormones for flaring up if I'm not doing anything remotely active.

>>8493
A friend and I do sexytiemz RP sometimes. I never get off during - I'm way too intent on the RP - but damn if it doesn't make me want to writhe around in my seat. I'll generally save it and get off to it, well, later. Ours can be insanely detailed, though - there's this one that has been going on far too long and we both have to be in the mood for it and ahhh. Blueballs galore, it's maddening.

>>8493
I know my best friend gets off on the stuff we rp together and once or twice I have to something my girlfriend and I have rped, I don't think it's exactly unusual.

Just bought my first vibe, feeling a strange mixture of 'fuckin' finally', 'oh my god what have I done', and quiet shame.

It was probably a better idea to ask before getting it, but from a few reviews that the Durex Pure Fantasy (pic) was a sure thing, does anyone have any advice or experiences with this particular one (or vibes in general)?

Kind of a weirdish question and not quite sexytiems talk, but:

I recently got measured for a new bra because my cups runneth over, and the lady at the shop said I should be a 38 D. Now, at the time I was wearing a 36 DD so it kinda made sense, sister sizes and all. So I try on a couple different styles in the two sizes--no go, boobs spilling out everywhere. Finally I go fuck it and try a 38 DDD, and that (finally) is the only thing that fits.

Then I get home and measure myself later, same deal: the cup-size calculator I found says I should be a 38 D.

So needless to say I am confuse. Are my tits just weird, or is it possible to get that bad a measurement in an ill-fitting bra?

>>8513
With how generally iffy bras can be, I am not surprised. Different brands, different styles. Lots of things can contribute to wildly varying bra sizes. I know I wear anything between a 40 DD and a 38 E but have E's that my tits spill out of and DD's that have a little extra room in them.
Tits be wack, yo.

So I lost my virginity today and it was awesome. Everyone always said that the first time is awkward and unpleasant. They were wrooong.
Lesbian sex probably had something to do with it though.

And yet I have already found the one downfall.
Now it feels like I can never masturbate again.

So many females commenting here... so much for 4chan's notions about "no girls on the internets".

Anyway, lacking a vag like what is apparently 75-90% of TF2Chan's userbase judging from this thread, I unfortunately don't get to enjoy all the many wonderful and creative ways of self-stimulation you girls have... dammit.
All I've got is a fist and a dick.

And, frankly, I'm actually getting bored with masturbating. I've only had sex once (at 13, with a 17-year-old babysitter who was a bit slutty and admitted she did it out of pity "because you deserve at least one lay in life" - yeah, thanks for the ego-booster, bitchwaffle), and, due to certain medical conditions (among them social anxiety, social phobia, and partial blindness) I'm unable to drive, unemployed, and still live at home with my parents at 29. Not exactly conductive to a healthy sexlife.

What worries me is that, if by some gods-damned miracle I actually somehow manage to find a female with standards low enough to consider bedding me... that all my time spent "flying solo" will seriously fuck up my attempts at servicing someone else - after all, movies and text can only teach so much before personal experience is needed...

>>8557
That thing with the babysitter is messed up - she should be in jail. Also she just sounds like a general cunt.

I wouldn't worry about flying solo impairing your ability to please a woman, though. While I'll come clean right off the bat and say I'm still a virgin, I still tend to think that any guy who'd care enough just take the time to eat me out pleasure me with his mouth and fingers is already way ahead of other guys on the list. Even guys with more stamina or bigger dicks.

The problem I feel a lot of guys have is selfishness and impatience. They want to rush into things and just figure, "Welp, dick goes in," and that's all there is to it when it comes to sex. Some just go right ahead and think that all girls act like porn stars and basically just exist to get them off. Like I said, I'm just going on by my own thoughts and experiences from my friends, so it's not like I can speak for everybody, but eh.

I think that, as long as you spend enough time on foreplay, you'll be fine. Of course, every woman is different yadda yadda yadda.

Also, I know you're a straight man, but you should really look into getting an anal toy for yourself, if you're bored of the usual jacking off stuff. In particular, I'd put my stock into these guys: http://www.aneros.com/

They're actual scientists that have studied and done ACTUAL medical research on what gets guys off, and these are products based on their findings. Feedback for these babies have been OVERWHELMINGLY positive, and some guys say that sometimes it helped with prostrate-related illnesses. You don't have to - I know it's awkward for straight guys to try doing something that's thought of as being so emasculating, but if you're feeling adventurous and want to treat yourself, give it a try.

Good luck, man.

>>8583
On the subject of those anal toys, I highly recommend those, based on my eyewitness account of what they've done to my ex boyfriend. Apparently it's quite a 'boost', if that makes sense.

I was in the bedroom reading and I hear my bf in the other room listening to porn. Now being the scheming thing I am I wait for the porn to end, crank up the vibe and go to town some what loudly. BF comes in, falling for my bait. Lights on sex, I'm a happy camper.

I identify as pansexual. It's the most accurate label that suits me. I also happen to have a functioning vulva.
I fap to a lot of stuff. Mostly BDSM. Lately my kinks are becoming fetishistic.
I CANNOT fap to femsub/maledom. I need femdom/malesub. Gay BDSM can still do it for me but not lesbians.
Anybody know any good sites?