>>9594
(I thought they meant dry dry too. I just never heard that expression before lol. I'm pretty unexperienced in sexual stuff, not my fault!)

>>9594
Wasn't sure if I should have gone with this or a "Y U Mad?" reaction, this one seemed more appropriate though.

>>9596
Couldn't have said it better myself.

>He meant it as a joke...
Is it too much to ask that we not joke here? I mean, I don't mean it in that it should be a no-fun-zone or anything like that. Playful banter should be allowed, but this is the sort of place where people ask the questions that nobody wants to answer and hope for honest responses.

That is not the right place to kid around since there are some many people conflicted and needing of real answers. Like, if someone asked here, "Hey - I don't know if my breasts look normal... How do I tell?" and you responded with a snarky, "lol, if you have to ask, it's probably not. You should probably go see a doctor about your mutant boobs."

Not the time or the place. Take it somewhere else.

Chess: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/body/anatomy_pink_parts_female_sexual_anatomy
I hope this helps - this website is refreshingly frank and honest. Good luck.

>>9594
Whoppsie DO! I´m so sorry, that i just said politly my opinion, that i found this statement of you offensive. It can´t be in anyway, that this "joke" is somehow in itself offensive. I mean jokes are supposed to be taken humouros and with open arms and if i look back at your entry i can´t in anyway find out, why i thought this joke of you was meant seriously. Just alone the tone and writng style not to forget how you highlighted it, just needed to conclude that this is a joke. Silly me.

And i don´t know why i thought we speak about sexual lubrication. It´s not like we came through a request of telling how the inside of a vagina feels, if she is sexual stimulated on this topic. Not at all.

And ANON, i´m truly deeply sorry, that i attacked your good image of ANON on the chan. We all love you still ANON and i hope you will forgive me one day, that i Karnickel (female, german, heck you even have a photo of me chan, some chaners even know me personaly) just made a attack on your entry. I hope one day i may forgive myself.

Why so much fighting?

Anyways, other people's fetishes are really terrible, aren't they? Like if someone's interested in something unfamiliar to you, sexually, it can be kind of intimidating. I can be insecure and I always worry that I won't be able to live up to expectations.

I guess that's sort of problematic about lots of internet fetish subcultures... The communication is such that everyone sounds like these fascist fetish Nazis.

Anyways this website is my fetish, I really like everyone here and I like the art and the talk. <3 thanks everyone.

Okay guys, give me some first time advice.

>Deathly afraid of vaginal penetration
>Horribly insecure about my body image and lack of bust

Halp

>>9619
If you have boobs, no matter how small, he'll love them. No, seriously. The only ones who care about boob size 90% of the time if women, not men. Most guys don't expect you to have porn-star boobs, and if he does, he's probably not the type you'd want to be with, anyway.

As for the actual sex, your body knows what to do for the most part. If the guy is understanding and kind (which he fucking should be), then you have nothing to worry about.

>>9619

aw bb, don't be scared! what helped for me was to buy a smallish dildo and some lube and practice on my own before even trying anything penetrative with my boyfriend. start with your fingers and work your way up. also, learn from my mistakes and don't be worried about using lube - i get super wet just fine on my own, but lube still really helps, especially at first. also, i'm assuming you already have someone? you can always ask them to do not-penetrative things for a while, until you're comfortable with each other's bodies, which hopefully will help you not stress out.

as for body image, lol sorry i can't really help you there ._.

>>9619
>>9621

I can. http://www.007b.com/breast_gallery.php

Great site.

>>9622
Thank you for that site. I am genuinely glad to know that I am not the only woman out there with visually-evident nipples.

>>9621
>>9622
Thanks guys
This really helps, especially that site. When all you see in media are this giant, perfectly shaped funbags, you start to kind of feel like you're some kind of b-cup freak.

>>9622

Fantastic website... I went through some body issues myself, just I always wanted smaller breasts. But I love them all the same.

>>9628
Okay, as a gay, here's something I've observed.

No woman has any reason to be ashamed of her breasts. The guys don't care.

The tiniest breasts. Giant, fake breasts. Lopsided breasts. One-missing-breast-and-the-other-one-has-a-freaky-nipple breasts. It's all good. If you have tits, they will come. And I will hate you for it.

>>9631
oops, forgot to namefag

>>9625
I said with, and I meant to say 'without'. WTF brain.

>>9631
Good to know. Thank you.

To be more specific: If you have tits, they will come on your tits.

>>9622
wow really makes me appreciate my breasts. Only think I'd change about mine is I have horrible acne scaring. I tend to pick at things, especially if it itches. And some of the scars look like cigarette burns. Same with my back, a kid in class asked me why I had cigarette burns on my back. I stopped wearing that tank top after that. But no one sees my breasts but me anyway so I'm not real worried.

>>9636
Acne scarring?

Look at a dick sometime.

Just do it.

Suddenly, your breasts are examples of the most amazing skin in the world. Relative to the average dick.

>>9655
dicks still look better than vaginas. I'm not just saying this cause I'm straight or lacking in sex drive, but really. They're gross. Mine is ok cause it's mine, but yeah. But anyway I'm pretty sure dicks are supposed to look like that at least. I'm not too worried though, like I said, no one sees them :D

>>9664
Get out. I'm disowning you.

No, but seriously. Just because the female are more complex (no offense to anyone - they just kind of are), it doesn't mean they're "ugly". And they certainly aren't to anyone attracted to them.

The exception to the rule, of course, would have to be the dreaded blue waffle (google image if you dare), but that's a horrendous medical disease, and I don't think it has any bearing on how you should feel about normal, healthy vulvas.

Also, "Vulva" is the term you use for the female anatomy as a whole. The vagina is just isolated to that hole... thingy. Just an FYI fer ya brainz.

>>9635
C'mon - don't be a dick, bro. lol u so jelly of teh femalez.

  >>9667
Vulva gotcha. It just...it looks like a badly healed wound that's infected or something (yes I know those fluids are useful). I'm just weird like that. I also find mouths to be disguisting places and I don't like french kissing.

Course then I think of Kryton from Red Dwarf, a mechanoid who in one episode temporarily becomes a human and is confused about his new body. Especially his penis's appearance.

>>9664
If it helps, I still think my own vulva looks pretty gross. I always thought it was deformed because the inner lips are all purpley-gray, and like, twisted together when they're closed (kinda like when you do a pinky-swear with yourself), but apparently I just have a freaky vulva. It's normal, and there's nothing wrong with it. It's just not a porno vulva.
(And you guys might laugh at this, but for the longest time, I thought I had herpes or something - though I've never had sex of any kind, except with my own hand- because I could see all the little hair follicles or pores or whatever down there.)
And any time I see a naked girl in porn or whatever, I'm just 'eh'. I don't know if it's because I'm straight and just don't find the genitalia of other women attractive, but there it is.

But penises can be pretty freaky, too. Hell, so can ears. If you stare at any bodily object long enough, it'll start to look weird after a while. Like when you write the same word over and over again on a piece of paper.

>>9636
Wow.. I have the exact same problem. My breasts are pretty big and nicely rounded and I'm rather happy with their size and form, but they're covered in small cigarette-burn like scars due to my obsessive skin picking. Whenever I'm bored i pick my skin on my arms, boobs and back. The scars/craters look horrible and I'm so goddamn embarrassed about it. I always tell my sexual partners i enjoy partially clothered sex(kinda true) so i won't have to show them my scarred boobs.

Have you ever tried to stop the skin picking? Sometimes i try to quit, but i always end up doing it without noticing. It calms me down.. I think I'm addicted to skin picking/trying to find pimples that aren't there.

>>9678
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dermatillomania
I have to have something for my hands to do. That's half the reason I'm on the computer; I just need something to do while watching TV or something.

>>9681
Well fuck me. I didn't know it was an actual disease. It sort of helps knowing there's other people dealing with the same problem at least. Now that i know there's an actual name for what i do and possibly treatment I'm considering telling someone about it and getting help.
I've been doing it for over 4 years and i guess i always fooled myself to believe it wasn't something to get worked up about. You know.. the good old "I can stop whenever i want, it's not a problem bohooo." Thinking about it makes me realize.. it really is kind of a big problem. I can't stop doing it man..

Lately whenever I hit certain areas, my legs start twitching violently. Like, kicking.
I hope this is normal?

sometimes my leg twitches. I don't kick out, it's more like my upper leg. Might be a reaction like when they hit your knee with a hammer, or when you scratch a dog's tummy.

>>9678
Like this? There's a bunch you can't see because my lamp kind of bleached everything out.
If so, then I do it too. You're not alone in the world, bro.
If not then I'm a whole different kind of boob-scarred freak.

>>9694
I meant lower leg. My bad.

>>9697
That's pretty much what my acne scars look like. I just know they're flat, pale (usually), and have like one dark spot where the hair follicle is/was. Yay we aren't alone!

-Dr. Donny mode initiated-
To those of you with the acne problems, might I ask a few questions?
What soap do you use?
Do you work out much?
How much natural sun does the effected area get?
How heavy/transparent are the clothes you wear?
How often do you bathe?

Also, have you tried any creams or gels on your effected areas? I would suggest getting a fragrance free soap, or one that is free of additives. Dove soap tends to have a very good chance of cleaning out pores. Perhaps a slightly rough sponge or loofah as well, nothing too hard though.

Sun light does wonders to clear skin as well, or even just having it endure different things like warmth, cold, mud, exercise and the likes. There are also creams that are left on over night, but I wouldn't suggest those. Instead, look for one that are left on for a short amount of time and then have to be washed off.

>>9697
Yes exactly like that, just.. more of it. All over my breasts. Tried not to pick today and resorted to slapping myself hard in the face whenever i thought about doing it. Almost worked, but only for a few hours. I go into this.. trance-like state where i can't control myself, i just pick and squeeze and scratch till there's nothing but blood and craters left. It's so fucked up.

>>9705
All my acne is selfinflicted, like.. I pick at shit that isn't there, it irritates the skin and small bumbs start to show up, which i then pick to oblivion.

I've heard that E-vitamin cream should be really good for scarred and damaged skin. Thinking of buying some and try it out. Someone also mentioned in a skin-picker forum that Coco butter should help.

Link to site-->http://www.skinpick.com/
It made me feel a bit better knowing I'm not the only one who does this shit.

>>9714

It's hard getting out if that trance sometimes, especialy when thinking hard about soemthign. I know i go into the exact same thing when i'm deep in thought, got no scaring of my chest, but my legs are a different matter. There is still a spot on my theigh where an in-grown hair is being stubborn.

Are you guys sure that you're suffering from body acne and not keratosis pilaris? Because that's what I've got, and the descriptions here sound similar.

>>9733
I dunno about the others, but mine is acne. I don't have it as bad as I used to at least. I'm 27 ffs, I had hoped it would be gone by now. But whatever

>>9714
E oil is actually an irritant if you put it directly on the skin; at best, it'll make you greasy and at worse it will actually make acne worse. A little bit of aloe gel (not aloe cream or god help us, godforsaken raw aloe) goes a long way.

I've started using the proactive!solution, and while trying not to sound like a fucking infomercial, I'll just say that it does really help. The trouble is it does nothing for your marks and scars, its only really helpful for preventing acne. I've found cream made from rosehips is really good for scars and red marks, and in general the stuff is supposed to be a magic skin bullet.

Don't eat the shit though, it'll ruin your kidneys.

In sexual news, aloe gel is wonderful for chaffed genitals and dried out membranes, and is passable lube in a desperate situation.

>>9733

Yeah, I've mostly got keloid scars myself, all across my shoulders, bit on my boobs. It's hard to tell what may or may not be purely acne scarring, but I know the big, non-acne-shaped ones aren't at least.

>>9748

Re: aloe-- it is totally possible to be allergic to aloe (even though it's the last thing on earth that ought to make your skin irritated, I know), so if you don't already use aloe (you probably do, it's in everything), do a test patch.

Really, do a test patch before you rub anything on your man/lady bits. I don't care what you plan on applying to your genitals, rub some on your arm first.

(But probably, nobody here is allergic to aloe and unaware, since you'd be breaking out after using almost every hand soap if you were. Still, the test patch is never a bad idea)

>>9748
Awesome! I already have some aloe oil laying about!

I've been dating someone for quite a while now. The situation saddens me mainly because it is very long distance. (He lives in Russia. We plan on seeing eah other soon, or atleast when we have enough income to find a nice place.) But we have been together for about a year now without any sense that the relationship is dying. We have never had camera or microphone sex, and I don't nesisarily have a problem with that. I basicaly left him in charge of when we "get down to bidness" because I don't want him feeling uncomfortable. I've sent him several pornographic drawings of us together and he tells me he adores them.
Needless to say in these past few weeks I have been getting a bit restless. I feel helplessly horney when I talk to him. (And it could be just something simple like todays differing economys, or an episode of spongebob. We both like it, don't judge.) But yeah, I'm getting tired of waiting. But I'm always telling myself, "just one more month, next month is your birthday, ask then, birthday passes, his birthday is in a few more months." And it goes in a round like that, next thing I know i could be waiting on valentines day next year. I know I shouldn't act so childish and just say what I want. But I get worried that it might make him uncomfortable. (Mostly because he's somehow been able to retain his virginity all this time.) I don't know what to do, or how exactly I should ask.

>>9773

Okay first of all. I may be the wrong person for this. Second of all. I can relate to you somehow, whcih is the reason why i´m answering now.

It´s good to have a plan and that you both want to see each other and i know patience is a virtue and it can be hard. But still keep up. You gonna do it.

About the virgin part. You really should try to talk with him about it, i mean try to find out, what he thinks what it will be like. By this i mean, if he thinks you have some high expectations about it. If he should think such a thing, say, that you just want to be with him and that this is all what is enough for you.
Tell him you will enjoy it. (Don´t say anything about orgasm. It´s a bonus, but not the main goal.) If you know how he feels about himself, you can better judge how far you can go and/or take a maybe fear from him.

If you want to have a bit more intimidating relationship. Tell him, you think about him in the last time in this kind of way. (Hey you made porn with the two of you.) And ask him what he would think about trying it out. Maybe he will like it? Or try to playfull bring it in the conversation and than just ask tenderly what he would think about doing this.
Than you know for sure. If he wants it too, it would be a bit better if he wouldn´t be the one in charge, but rather that you are the one who starts the talk and describes everything. But make sure he wants you to do it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-A8GvUehq4

Its very LOOOOONG but I thought you guys might enjoy this discussion.

>>9786
Hey thanks! I geuss ask and you shall receive.
Now I just have to find away to work up enoughe courage to somehow incoorperate this into a conversation with him.

This is going to sound extremely weird but does anyone else get an extremely tingly feeling in their nether regions while poking their bellybutton? I've never really masturbated (never really had a sex drive to begin with) and even trying doesn't do much for me, so it's kind of a strange sensation.

>>9701
>>9697
Honestly as long as I got some warning beforehand I really wouldn't be grossed out by this at all.

This is a bit awkward, but I've never masturbated or anything in my life. I've thought about it sure, and I've definitely had urges to be "playful" with certain guys, but nothing has ever happened and I'm still a virgin at 18.

Maybe it's because I was brought up in a conservative house where sex was very rarely mentioned, but I'm just impartial to it all together. Sometimes I wonder if I even have a sex drive. Hell, I didn't start looking at porn until I started coming around here about a year ago.

I tried maybe once with a finger going around up there, but it was really just an "eh" sort of thing, and I found myself stopping to go do something else not long after. Maybe I'm just doing it wrong?

It's really not too big of a deal for me whether I masturbate or not, but just the fact that I'm 18 and don't do it makes me self conscious.

>>9924

I'm 21 and I don't do it, man. Don't let anyone think that because you don't have a sex drive means you're somhow abnormal or anything. It makes life a helluva lot easier, to be honest.

>>9924
>>9944

And now a person with a rather... uhm "normal" seI AM A FAGGOT HUMP MY RUMPrive.

Life would be a bit easier, if i wouldn´t have sometimes these rather strong attacks of need.
So i give Novi hundred percent right behind it.
It´s okay and it´s natural. Which doesn´t means now that a rather strong seI AM A FAGGOT HUMP MY RUMPrive is bad, just that it´s different to handle (No pun intended) than to have non at all.

And it´s okay to be a virgin at age 18 or 21 or 27 or 45...

Virginy isn´t a treasure you need to protect on all cost, but rather something you should loose with someone where you find yourself comfortable with. And it´s nothing so worthless that you should just trow yourself on the next best guy/gal just to say: Now i´m a woman/men.

>>9924
Sticking a single finger up your vagina won't get you off, I guarantee it. Try stimulating your clitoris next time instead. That's where the arousal is in women, as well as a huge bundle of nerves. When I was really young I didn't like masturbation because I tried doing it much the same way.

However, if you find yourself unable to get aroused, you just may be one of the few people who doesn't have a sex drive. Or you may just not like masturbation. It's completely fine, and there's nothing wrong with you if you don't.

>>9799
Aww, beat me to it. I was just about to link that video.

It's pretty damn interesting, though, all the stuff it covers. Really opens your eyes about sexuality and sexual preferences.

Guess all those internet trolls claiming liking shemales is gay need to apologize - straight men like them way more than gays do.

>>9894
YES I DO. I don't think it's anything sexual, I think it's just one of those weird connected nerve things? It's definitely not a sexual-tingly, it's just... a tingly. But I definitely notice it.

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